Friday, July 10, 2009

Progress with the Husband.

Yesterday's counseling session with the husband was especially productive, and I feel like we made some progress. The issues that we are having still exist, but I think that we took great steps in the right direction of understanding our problems with communication. Overall I am pretty encouraged that we can go forward with starting to resolve some of the problems we have... hopefully we will eventually get to a point where he can be honest with me about his fears so it doesn't seem like he is against my weight loss.

We went out to dinner afterwards to take a break from eating at home (more for him than me), and I made great choices with small portions of decent foods. In the past if we go out after a late therapy session it might not have been so moderate.

He has today off from work, and we are running a bunch of errands together. Trying to just spend time together... in the presence of one another, but outside of the battleground which is our house. I will try to update tonight, or tomorrow morning how everything goes. Hopefully we can talk some more, have a few laughs, make good food choices...